Queen Beez Buzz: Boundries


Friday, May 7, 2010


One of my favorite self help reads has to be Boundaries.  After reading this comprehensive book I felt so much more empowered in my personal and professional relationships.  I have discovered over the years that setting limits as far as how much you let outside people influence your life path and decisions is crucial in being happy and reducing stress.
If you are a chronic pleaser and seek validation from those in your life who should love you unconditionally, setting these limits and boundaries will be very difficult and can not be done over night.  You will need to ease yourself into the changes carefully.  You will experience resistance from those around you, especially those people who try to exude a large amount of control over your life, but you have to keep moving forward no matter what if you want to be independent of those people who would keep you from growing emotionally.
Stay strong and keep your course after all there is light at the end of the tunnel and I promise it is not a train.

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